Michael Riggs, 75, of Carmel, passed away Feb. 28, 2018, with his wife of 53 years, Susan, by his side.
Known for his sense of humor, sharp tongue and witty remarks, affectionately referred to as “Mikeyisms” by those who loved him, Mike had a heart of gold behind his tough exterior. Diagnosed with multiple sclerosis (MS) at age 29, Mike set out to prove that the diagnosis was not a death sentence.
Mike loved tailgating at IU and would often show up and surprise his daughter at school. He also loved driving his grandsons to church every Sunday and taking them to Hardee’s afterward. He prided himself on making everyone around him laugh and smile and always had a joke for the occasion.
But the thing Mike was most passionate about was mentoring others with MS. In 1991, he participated in a charity walk with his daughter for the Indiana Chapter of the National Multiple Sclerosis Society, which led to his 20 plus years of service work as a mentor. Mike was a person that gave of himself no matter what. He was there to hold the hand of the recently diagnosed and fill them with hope and courage, showing by example that they could still live their life to the fullest.
Even when the diseased progressed, it didn’t alter his spirit. He was known to give the grandkids rides on his scooter and playfully swat people with his cane. When he became bedridden, he’d hold your hand tightly so you couldn’t get away, and he’d try to steal your drink if you weren’t looking. His spirit was infectious and he was cracking jokes until the very end.
Gabby, Mike’s granddaughter, summed it up best when she wrote, “My grandpa was the strongest person I know when my mom was only 4 years old he was diagnosed with MS. This disease slowly takes everything away from you. You and me we can wiggle our toes and walk to get a glass of water, MS takes that from you, but still in the last time I saw him he smiled and was happy. But that’s not really his entire story, sure it may have been apart of him but he definitely did not let it define him. He made sure that everyone around him was smiling, having fun most likely while he was drinking some scotch. My youngest memory of him was sitting in my house, I was riding on his lap as he drove his scooter round and round. Laughing and laughing “keep going keep going” as he kept on going as fast as he could. I believe that everyone is given a life they can handle. He was given this awful thing, but he made it into something unforgettable. A life full of many laughs, smiles, tears, these things have made some amazing memories for me and I am sure everyone is us in this room. My grandpa was an amazing father, husband, uncle, grandfather, father in law, brother, Great grandfather, and most of all a friend. This is why he will always be a part of me and I will always be thankful for every last thing he did. “
Professionally, Mike worked in the insurance industry starting his career at Diversified Insurance and ending with his own agency, Riggs & Associates. He served in the Indiana National Guard as a 2nd lieutenant.
Mike is survived by his wife, Susan; children Rodney (Julie) Riggs, Rachael (Chris Gowe) Riggs, grandchildren: Drew Misner (Leigha), Griffin Riggs (Natalie), Mason Riggs, Gabriella Nocera, Isabella Nocera, Sister Judith Ann Foreman, many nieces and nephews and great granddaughter Cora Leigh.
He is also survived by friend and caregiver Derico Young, who cared for him with grace, dignity and a true friendship.
In lieu of services, there will be a celebration of life later this summer.
Memorial contributions may be made to:
National Multiple Sclerosis Society, Indiana Chapter
3500 DePauw Blvd.
Suite 1040
Indianapolis, IN 46268
https://www.nationalmssociety.org/Chapters/INI/Donate
Vicki Newlin says
Susie, so sorry to hear of Mike’s passing. He will finally be free of this disease
Make sure you let me know when you have his celebration of life.
Catharine O'Daniel says
Mrs. Riggs, Rodney and Rachael:
I am so very sorry to hear about Mr. Riggs. I have so many fond memories of him and your entire family. Mr. Riggs’s sense of humor was legendary and infectious. Your entire family is in my prayers and I look forward to giving you each a big hug this summer and to share in the celebration of a life well lived and a man well loved!
Catharine O’Daniel
Gloria and Amos Mills says
What a great guy! Everyone loved Mike. So sorry for you loss Suzy and family. Lots of fun memories from back in the days with Cool Creek friends.
Kaye Shook Diener says
Dear Susie, I am so very sorry to read about Mike’s passing. He was a great guy and when I think about you two, I have such fond memories of North Central fun! My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. Kaye Shook Diener
Bob Walker says
Dear Susie, I am so sorry to hear about Mike. Owen Neighbours called me in Florida to tell me of his passing. My family is struggling with my daughter-in-law’s MS and her rapid decline after 21 years of doing pretty well. She is totally debilllitated now and in ICU at St. Vincent’s. I know Mike fought it to the end and kept his great sense of humor. Take care of yourself now. You deserve it!! Bob Walker
Steve Orr says
Susie – So very sorry to hear of Mike’s passing. When I saw the smile on his face in the Obit it brought back many good memories of both of you and our days at NCHS. To have endured the gradual debilitation of MS for 45 years and maintain that smile speaks volumes about his character. To have a beautiful wife like you spend those years at his side is inspiring. There is a special place in heaven for you both.
Andrea Feezle says
Susie- so sorry to hear of Mike’s passing! Many memories of him from N.C.! You’re in my prayers!
Pam Morris Hannah says
Susie,
What a lovely tribute to Mike from family and friends. Indeed, he was a kind soul, thinking of others beyond his own difficulties. He was blessed to have you, his devoted wife and friend, for 53 years. I hope to see you later this summer. Peace be with you and your family knowing he is also. Love, Pam
Charles M. Dawson says
Dear Susie, I am so very sorry to hear about Mike’s passing. As you know we were good friends in school. I have lots of memories of those days. I remember the day when you and Mike told me you were getting married. It seems like yesterday. How time flies. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
God bless you!
Charley (Mac) Dawson
Gloria Baudendistel Parr says
My condolences, it sounds as though he was a wonderful man and will be truly missed by his friends relatives and wife. You may not remember me as I didn’t know you well at North Central, but grief can be shared whether one is close friends or not